Sadly, the main news of the weekend is the death of Kobe Bryant and his 13-year-old daughter Gianna, as well as the seven other people on the helicopter. Our sincere condolences go out to Vanessa Bryant and her daughters for their devastating loss.

Kobe was a legend on the court and just getting started in what would have been just as meaningful a second act. To lose Gianna is even more heartbreaking to us as parents. Michelle and I send love and prayers to Vanessa and the entire Bryant family on an unthinkable day.

— Barack Obama (@BarackObama) January 26, 2020

The Grammys were held tonight in the Los Angeles Staples Center, which is home to the LA Lakers -- Kobe's team for 20 years. Alicia Keys and Boyz II Men paid tribute to the Bryants with an a cappella rendition of their song, "It's So Hard to Say Goodbye to Yesterday." - (TV)

(And y'all grieve or don't grieve however y'all think you need to, but don't dismiss others for the way they grieve or don't grieve).

In case you missed it, Lizzo opened the Grammys tonight and you can watch her performance here. - (Rolling Stone)

Taylor Swift was supposed to have a surprise performance at the Grammys, but apparently, that got nixed? (This was written pre-show, so if she did perform, um, nevermind!) - (Dlisted)

Taylor Swift reveals that she battled an eating disorder for years, which is sad, but, and I say this not to be a dick but genuinely because it's likely sadly the case, are there any young female celebrities that haven't had some form of disordered eating? Hollywood is a vicious machine. - (Celebitchy)

Halsey tweeted a really dumb comment last week, so if you were wondering why "Halsey 9/11" was trending, wonder no more. - (Lainey)

This social worker's penis manicures are balls-out brilliant. - (Allure)

"Praying for satanic pregnancies to miscarry right now" - what the shit? Jejus! How awful is this going to make any actual Christian woman feel who has any kind of pregnancy difficulty or spontaneous miscarriage over the weekend? He's surrounded by the very best people, though. - (Yahoo)

Once again, Forced Birth proponents are deciding who gets to raise these children. File under: The cruelty is the point. - (The Root)

I feel this article in my bones. "The Overwhelming Aggravation of Shopping with ADHD." - (Glamour)

This is a sweet gift idea and one that I might actually like for myself. - (MF)

Charming Potato got a little heated in an Instagram response to a comment about his girlfriend Jessie J being less attractive than his ex-wife Jenna Dewan. - (Buzzfeed)

If you have a few minutes do make sure you click through the slideshow of Jean Paul Gaultier's final show. It is A THING. - (GFY)

Roxana shared this "wonderful interview with and profile of the actress Lori Tan Chinn" from Awkwafina is Nora from Queens and Orange Is the New Black. - (Time)

Aww, Jesse Tyler Ferguson and his husband are expecting their first child this summer. - (SOW)

Did you know that Billy Jensen, who helped finish Michelle McNamara's I'll Be Gone in The Dark, has written his own book? As she read it, badkittyuno found herself rooting for the author to crack the cases the police couldn't. "Jensen outlines a lot of the cases that he worked on, along with the obstacles (police officers who may or may not have appreciated his help, and may or may not have the time and resources to run down his leads), the families (the families are heart-breaking) and the results." (Cannonball Read 12)