Jerry O’Connell doesn’t argue with wife Rebecca Romijn — because he worries she can do better.

“I’m shocked every day that I have Rebecca as my wife. It’s why Rebecca wins every fight,” he told us at the Humane Society of the US gala. “When I do get an aggressive emotion or feeling and I think that I can win … I think to myself, ‘Y’know Rebecca shouldn’t be with me. Rebecca should be with someone way up higher in the chain.’ So just take it … I take the loss.”

Gavin DeGraw performed.