During the 90 Day: The Single Life Season 3 Tell All special, we heard about Tania Maduro’s love life and journey.

One thing has been holding her back: her marriage to Syngin.

Despite some “theories” from castmates, it’s not lingering feelings keeping them from moving forward — just paperwork.

Part 3 of the Tell All fixed that.

Tania Maduro and her ex, Syngin Colchester, spoke about where things stand. Unfortunately, they have not been able to remain “close friends.”

Tania explained: “He shared, like, ‘I can’t do that.’ Like, ‘That’s too hard fo rme. I need more space.’ And that hurt.”

She has heard a lot from him about his dating since they split. Syngin gave her a heads up before going Instagram official with his new girlfriend, Shayna.

But Syngin has not been willing to discuss Tania’s dating life following their split. That is one-sided and awkward.

“I would love to be like great friends, because even if we didn’t work out as a couple, there is still a connection there,” Tania expressed.

But with the topic of Shayna coming up — Syngin spoke about her at length — some of their castmates began to spin theories.

Debbie Johnson, who at 70 has a pretty significant generational divide from the Millennial exes, spoke up.

She voiced her belief that Tania “doesn’t want a divorce” because divorcing Syngin would allow him to remarry.

Debbie believes that, deep down, Tania doesn’t want to see him move on.

Tania reacted with astonishment at Debbie’s theory. There did not appear to be much substance to it.

Meanwhile, Syngin was quick to shoot down the speculation — noting that he hadn’t been in a rush to support it, either.

To both of them, the actual paperwork surrounding a legal marriage is just red tape. The commitment that they once had is the real marriage.

We could talk all day about why this is not an uncommon point of view among Millennials (or Gen Z, for that matter).

Watching parents remain married on paper while quietly loathing each other can do that. But so can watching governments withhold or grant legal marriage recognition.

Governments do not bestow marriages, they only acknowledge them. Some of them, some of the time. Marriage is a personal relationship — sometimes involving religion, sometimes involving more than two people.

Tania and Syngin’s marriage ended everywhere but on paper. It ended a long time ago.

And, during the Tell All Part 3, which they recorded in September of this year,

“I have a notary and the papers here with me, ready to sign the f–king divorce papers!” Tania announced.

Sure enough, the notary came out and handed the exes their divorce papers.

Together, Tania and Syngin formally ended their marriage — the marriage that ended, in truth, long ago.

This was also a Tell All first. We’ve seen divorce papers on this show before, but never a Tell All signing quite like this.

Done? Done!

However, that does not mean that everything was free of conflict.

Tania had made a point by asking why the paperwork was such a big deal to outsiders. One of her castmates took umbridge at it.

Debbie went off on Tania, calling her a “bitch” among a slew of other insults.

You hate to see your faves in conflict. We know that Tell Alls film for many hours and can be very draining on the cast, but this was intense.

It would be nice to see the two be genuine friends one day. But that doesn’t have to happen.

Tania Maduro and Syngin Colchester DIVORCE on Camera in a Tell All First was originally published on The Hollywood Gossip .