90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After Recap: Kalani Faagata Cries as Asuelu Gets Mean (Again)

May 17, 2021

90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After? Season 6, Episode 4 had a lot of tears.

Kalani cried, speaking to her sister about her situation with Asuelu.

When she spoke to Asuelu later, things were so much worse.

Angela had her surgery ... but not before lying to her surgeons about following the non-smoking guidelines.

Julia meets up with a wedding planner, eager to launch her new career and move away from the farm.

But a conversation with Brandon takes a toxic turn as her weird jealousy issues make her lash out.

Andrei has his first day of work for Chuck, but he is already clashing with basically everyone.

Yara and Jovi are still getting accustomed to being new parents, but Jovi knows that their lives will soon change (again).

Natalie drives home for an awkward reunion with Mike after their fight at Mike's birthday dinner.

And Tiffany and Ronald have a painful conversation, while Daniel just wishes that Ronald were there with them already.

1. Kalani Faagata and Asuelu Pulaa

Kalani faagata explains why shes furniture shopping with kolini
Kalani cites the realities of being a mother of two and how furniture shopping is what excites her at this stage in her life. She also shares that this isn't really Asuelu's forte, so she's taking Kolini with her. Whether this is real or just a gimmick to give them a different setting to film ... it doesn't matter. Everybody loves Kolini, and furniture stores are as good a place as any for a conversation.

2. Kalani has some opinions

Kalani faagata shares headboard opinions with kolini faagata
Before they settle in for a difficult, painful conversation, Kalani shares some amusing observations about sanitation for padded headboards, and also accidentally collapses a bench. Whoops!

3. Kalani gets serious

Kalani faagata explains the sad state of her marriage asuelus ro
She feels like there are lots of fights but no real passion anymore. Kalani doesn't feel affection from Asuelu. She also notes that "to control the mess," Asuelu has his own bedroom where he plays games and where he sleeps most of the time.

4. Wait, what?

Kolini faagata does not like the weird stuff shes hearing
You know how sometimes, things seem normal to you until you say them out loud to another person who is like "NO, that's not okay!!" Well, that's what happened here.

5. Kalani feels like "roommates with benefits"

Kalani faagata admits to kolini its like being roommates with be
Apparently, Asuelu only comes to her room for occasional sex, but that's it. (Note: obviously, plenty of marriages work just fine or even better than before with multiple bedrooms! Snoring, temperature preferences, different schedules ... there are tons of good reasons for that. But Asuelu and Kalani have other problems, and this is making it worse)

6. It's so hard

Kalani faagata cries and admits how unhappy she is
Kalani feels miserable. On the one hand, she knows that Asuelu wasn't raised to understand about the need for affection and love and mutual respect, so she wants to nurture him. On the other hand, she already has two children to nurture and this is making her miserable. Is Asuelu really willing to change? Right now, he assumes that divorce isn't a real thing, because he was raised like Kalani's dad was raised to think that marriage is for life.
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